

| Ladies do not use the children as a pawn against the father of your child. He is entitled to see his children and talk to them on the phone even if he does not want to have a relationship with you or vice versa. |
| Ladies every time you lay down with a man you can become pregnant even if you practice safe sex. What type of father would he be? |
| Ladies a man is not obligated to have a relationship or marry you because you have his baby. He is obligated to pay child support. He is obligated to spend time with his child and call his child. |
| Talk to a man not at a man |
| Ladies, we cannot change a man. He has to want to change. |
| Education is the key to success |
Our men are great, beautiful, smart & necessary within the African-American Family |
| Gentlemen you are the first line of defense for your home & second the police. Men protect your home, protect your woman & protect your child. |
| Turn off your TV, cell phone and computer. Talk to your child. Cook family dinner on Sunday. Have family night and watch a movie. |
Work at home Wives and Husbands who have children and are doing a great job as Home Managers, I bow down to you. You have the hardest job in the world and THANK YOU! |
| It's not our Grandparents responsibility to raise our children. They are here to help and enjoy their grandchildren. They deserve to enjoy their life as Grandparents. |

| Ladies and Gentlemen date...court (To try to gain the love or affections of, to seek to marry). |
| Ladies, as women we are very nurturing, strong and work so hard to satisfy our man (even without a ring on our finger). Let's do our best and not sit around waiting on a man. Do not wait for him to have a relationship with us. Do not wait for him to marry us. Do not wait for him to change. If you are a good woman leave, but leave when you are ready, because if you are not ready you will just keep going back to him. If you keep going back to him do not complain to him...it's your choice. Take responsibility and get some help (counseling). We deserve better. Value yourself Ladies. |